Most men don't realize that women automatically disqualify them based on how they presents themselves both physically and mentally. Their minds then generate excuses for why they have no success with women; they blame their looks, their lack of success, other men... the list is endless. When in fact, the truth is that they have nobody to blame but themselves.
Self-criticism is vital for self-improvement. How can you improve yourself if your ego tells you that you're perfect? By altering your behavior and appearance in 10 simple ways, you can magnify your success with women dramatically:
Be Confident
This is the most important facet, and also the most difficult to achieve if you don't naturally have it. Not being afraid of social interactions communicates high status.
Be Dominant
Confidence will often naturally lead to it, but dominance should still be in the forefront of your mind when talking to women. It is not domineering. It is not arrogance. It is subtle and hard to define.
Be Clean
Hygene is an important part of the image you present to the world. How you dress and how you present yourself is an indication of the value and worth which you place upon yourself. And remember that nobody wants to hang around with a smelly douche bag.
Be Relaxed
Being relaxed communicates many good things about you. It allows you to think more clearly and communicates to others that you are comfortable in your own skin.
Be Fun
People like to hang out with fun people! By being funny, charming, and witty, people will appreciate your presence and will enjoy your company.
Be Happy
No one wants to hang out with someone who is mopey, depressed, and angry all the time. By being happy you are making yourself more approachable and showing others that you are a friendly and engaging person.
Be Content
This could also be defined as being non-needy. People can often smell when someone approaches them with an agenda or a specific outcome in mind. Neediness implies low social value and lack of inner strength.
Be Popular
Social proof is another extremely important part of your game, especially when it come to first impressions. If you are perceived as the fun, popular guy who everyone likes, women will be much more receptive to your approach!
Be Self-Loving
Loving yourself is extremely important. This isn't the same thing as being selfish, however. It is possible to love yourself and also to love others. The problem arises when you put other peoples needs ahead of your own unjustifiably. Remember that you are number one!
Be Giving
"Give and ye shall receive"
This old mantra rings true. By giving to others you will communicate high value and friendliness, and others will be more likely to reciprocate.
These 10 points are merely the beginnings of what it takes to be great with women. The TIC has created a comprehensive system which is designed for those who wish to take their game to new heights.
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