The 11 Rules for a Great Relationship

1) Meet Her
          Get on your game and zero in on your target. Keep Her attention high and her curiousity at the max, starting with the golden rules to phone calls

 2) Be a First Date Pro
          Stay smooth on your first night out together with our tips for first date conversation, while recovering quickly and easily from any bad first impression


 3) Friend to Girlfriend
          Make her your flame (not your friend) and gain insight into the subtle differences between playful flirting and true attraction


4) The Couting Phase
         Study the 10 traits that women look for in boyfriend and pass any of her courting tests with style and confidence

5) Integrate your life
         You've won her. and now you need to wind her friends over, too. Do it and also get guidance for what to do when your buddies don't like her as much as you do


6) Maintenance

         Keep the spark alive by understanding the lifespan of romantic gestures. Avoid 9 common relationship killersso you can keep things on the upswing

7) The Tough Times
        It's not about what you argue about, it's how you do it. Be civil and constructive, and also overcome the peril of jealousy 

8) Impress Her Family
        Want to put your best foot forward when you meet her siblings? Here's how. Not only that, you'll also learn 10 ways to impress her father

9) Living Together

        Are you ready to move in with her? Her'es how to weigh the pros and cons, then embrace your new role as a romantic roommate 


10) Keep It Exciting

        Don't fall into a rut: use our hot suggestions to keep your sex life spicy and make your partner happy on a daily basis (especially on anniversaries)
 
11) Plan Ahead

        Are there  wedding bells in your future? Read up on the signs that you're ready for the marriage and the ways to postpone a proposal if you aren't ready to take the plunge

Approaching in the Club

Things you need to have first is TRUE BODY LANGUAGE,
because clubbing place you can not use words that are too long for the first time.

Then all you need is a few words - words
short like "Hi, What is your name?"
and the more you need is body language that shows
that you are a man who has value and high quality.
  Therefore, when he refused to meet with you.
The woman would regret her decision on that day.

The second thing you need to have is the correct FASHION.
  I am confident that at every club I've ever visited has a rule that 

you MUST DRESS-UP / DRESS-UP is A MUST. 

I'm sure you know that every woman who was in the club must dress-up with clothes and makeup.

If you come without looking cool.
They will think that you are not hanging out or you do not know how to take care of yourself.

Any of which is on the woman's brain,
  both are not a good thing for you.

How To Flirt On The Phone

Tip #1. Deepen your voice - A sexy hello is preferable to a squeaky one.

Adjust your tonality so that you sound sexy on the phone. Exchanging

pleasantries on the phone is the same as exchanging a handshake; you have

to get it right, or you risk making a bad first impression.

 

Tip #2.  Smile when you're talking - Do this exercise right now: record

your voice. Compare the way you sound while you're smiling and while you're

frowning. This slight difference will make or break the way you flirt on the

phone. A smiling hello will make her feel welcome, while a frowning one will

scare her.

 

Tip #3. Do not phrase your initial greeting as a question - Say hello like

you would when meeting her in person. A lilting hello makes you seem weak,

particularly if you're leaving a message on her answering machine.

Here's a bonus tip...

 

Tip #4. To really learn how to flirt on the phone, you must get over your

fear of silence. Sometimes, pauses are necessary to let the other person digest

what you just told her. Rambling on and on to prevent pauses will make her

want to cover her ears and get rid of you as soon as possible.

How To Attract Without Saying A Single Word

When it comes to attracting women, your 'facial gesture'

(or facial expression) becomes very important. You might not

know this, but most men fail at getting women to like them just

because they have got very poor facial expression.

The mistake that they make is that they have never really given
much thought about facial gestures. As a result, women get turned
off. Don't make this mistake!

It is worthwhile to figure out how to master facial expressions -
in fact, this is one of the 'secret weapons' that the master
seducers know that they seldom tell others about.

When I have mastered my facial gestures, it became my favorite
method of 'approaching' women. In fact, 4 times out of 5 women
would smile back whenever I look at them from a distance.

(This is also a tactic which you can use to "Shift Her Focus" - a
powerful technique I shared in the DeadlySeduction system on
how to get attention of any woman you fancy - 100% of the time.
If you have the program already, quickly flip to page 38 for a quick
revision.)

Now here's an easy way to master your facial expression...

When you see a girl you like, look her directly in the eye. (It's
important to keep a steady eye contact). At the same time, think of
some 'naughty' thoughts, and then smile.

If it somehow feels unnatural, start again. After a couple of
times, you will feel comfortable - you will know it when you get it
right.

Once you got this nailed down, then she will feel that you are an
attractive man. Your success with her is virtually guaranteed when
you walk over to talk to her - and you won't ever need cheesy
pickup lines again. How's that for a change?

The good thing is that once you learned this technique, you will
have it for life. You will then have the powers to get women
attracted to you...without having to say a single thing. What's
next then is to develop instant rapport, which is easy if you apply
the 'share the pain' technique (page 52 of DeadlySeduction -

How to Text Flirt with Women

#1 - Use Call Back Humor

When you first meet a woman, it's important to have a fun,
flirty conversation that she'll remember.

Often, I like to tease a girl on something about her
background or her interests.

Then I'll assign her a nickname.

And once I get her digits, I'll send a quick text message
that refers back to this nickname.

This is what's known as "Call Back Humor".

It's taking a previous conversation and using it to seed
future discussions.

When sending a text message to a girl, you should always
refer back to private jokes and conversations that you had
with her.

#2 - Create Familiarity with Her

Call back humor is a form of what's commonly known as
"assumed familiarity".

With a text message to a girl, you want to create the vibe
that you're ALREADY buddies.

Joke around with your messages.

Don't be afraid to tease her.

Act like you've known each other for years.

#3 - Use Your Imagination

People (even women) live boring lives.

Your text messages should help break the monotony of her
day and get to her to imagine what it would be like to go
on an 'adventure' with you.

For instance, you could text something like: "It's 80
degrees out, wonder what it would like to skip work today
and go to the beach with you?".

Then you can text back and forth about the different things
you would bring on your little adventure.

#4- Be a *Little* Sweet

I've never been a fan of giving TOO many compliments when
you first meet a girl.

But you one (or two) ...when done correctly... can really
amplify make her think of you.

For instance, if you just had a date the night before, you
could send something that describes how you were just
thinking about what a good kisser she was on the date.

Stuff that compliments a woman's ACTIONS are always a
great way to flirt with text messaging.

Knowing how to text flirt doesn't have to be serious or
formal.

The idea is to use this device to playfully flirt and get
her thinking about you.

Conversation Tips - Active Listening

This tip is CRUCIAL, 
can make or break it with a target, and will keep your mind sharp and alert after a bit of trial and error but does require a lot of active listening. 
Girls will always drop in little words in their sentences hoping you will pick up on them! this is where the active listening definitely helps and where a girls "anti-slut" defense come into play.

And example of this is while out, a friend of mine was on form, tuning this girl working in a cigarette stall and doing very well. She had to get back to work and he noticed she was finishing up in the stall, and said to me, "ok, I've got to ask her out for a drink". He waited until she was on her own away from the stall and approached her asking to go out for a drink sometime. Her reply was, "oh I'm actually kind of seeing someone at the moment". Now honestly, how many of you picked up on the word/s she dropped in there? .."kind of", THAT is part of a girls "anti-slut" defense, yeah she may be seeing a guy, but the "kind of" lets you know shes interested in you but doesn't want to come across as being a slut, and because you picked up on the 'kind of' shes still fair game so keep working your magic. It takes a bit of practice to pick up on these, but once you do, you cant help but pick up on these subtle hints every time. - Shaymis

Conversation Tips - Talk About Places

Most women are interested in Traveling or exotic places. 
I've always gone to the Dominican Republic to party and I find that many upper class Europeans go there. 
Don't be afraid to learn a few different districts of world cities like Berlin or London. 
--->Ex: Oh where are you from sugar? I'm from Tarnow, Poland. Oh? Tarnow!?! I had a friend in Dabrowska Tarnow for a few years! I'd love to come again! It allows you to start a conversation and get invited to their homes and get guaranteed booty calls in the future while traveling.
If traveling domestic, don't be afraid to mention (but not brag) about all the fun European cities you've been to. 
Talk more about the people and culture than how cool it is to travel and be rich. Even if you've never been outside of your home town, say you've been anywhere. London, Paris, and Milan are big cities that excite women. I have been to Europe a few times but I love talking to women in America about my travels. They are instantly fascinated! But beware, many European vacationers in Mexico and the Caribbean aren't too impressed with your travels. Mention there countries and their neighborhoods. ( BONUS POINTS = I learned about 10 phrases in Spanish, French, German, Polish, Russian, and Dutch! If you hear them talking in that language, say a simple phrase. Then they'll probably say Sprechen Sie Deutsch or Parlez vous francais or whatever. Say a small bit in that language and then introduce yourself in English) I was smart enough to figure that trick out at age 13! It literally has worked 100%!!!!! -Jonny

Women Find Attractive in Men

Most men don't realize that women automatically disqualify them based on how they presents themselves both physically and mentally. Their minds then generate excuses for why they have no success with women; they blame their looks, their lack of success, other men... the list is endless. When in fact, the truth is that they have nobody to blame but themselves.

Self-criticism is vital for self-improvement. How can you improve yourself if your ego tells you that you're perfect? By altering your behavior and appearance in 10 simple ways, you can magnify your success with women dramatically:


Be Confident

This is the most important facet, and also the most difficult to achieve if you don't naturally have it. Not being afraid of social interactions communicates high status.


Be Dominant

Confidence will often naturally lead to it, but dominance should still be in the forefront of your mind when talking to women. It is not domineering. It is not arrogance. It is subtle and hard to define.


Be Clean

Hygene is an important part of the image you present to the world. How you dress and how you present yourself is an indication of the value and worth which you place upon yourself. And remember that nobody wants to hang around with a smelly douche bag.


Be Relaxed

Being relaxed communicates many good things about you. It allows you to think more clearly and communicates to others that you are comfortable in your own skin.


Be Fun

People like to hang out with fun people! By being funny, charming, and witty, people will appreciate your presence and will enjoy your company.


Be Happy

No one wants to hang out with someone who is mopey, depressed, and angry all the time. By being happy you are making yourself more approachable and showing others that you are a friendly and engaging person.


Be Content

This could also be defined as being non-needy. People can often smell when someone approaches them with an agenda or a specific outcome in mind. Neediness implies low social value and lack of inner strength.


Be Popular

Social proof is another extremely important part of your game, especially when it come to first impressions. If you are perceived as the fun, popular guy who everyone likes, women will be much more receptive to your approach!


Be Self-Loving

Loving yourself is extremely important. This isn't the same thing as being selfish, however. It is possible to love yourself and also to love others. The problem arises when you put other peoples needs ahead of your own unjustifiably. Remember that you are number one!

Be Giving

"Give and ye shall receive"

This old mantra rings true. By giving to others you will communicate high value and friendliness, and others will be more likely to reciprocate.

These 10 points are merely the beginnings of what it takes to be great with women. The TIC has created a comprehensive system which is designed for those who wish to take their game to new heights.

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Turn a Friend into a lover

When a woman first meets a man, the initial few minutes of her interaction with him are crucial and will determine the type of relationship that will ensue from then on. In simple terms: She will make all of her most important judgments about you within 3-5 minutes of meeting you.

During this ever-important window of time the woman will "appraise" your value, and then upon determining how much potential you have she will then decide if she wants to even continue to have any form of relationship with you at all. Once this is done, she will then place you into one of two categories within her mind to govern the type of relationship that she feels you to be worthy of: potential lover or potential friend.

Once a woman has made her decision and has placed you into one of these two categories, you will forever be stuck there for as long as you know her. For example, if she considers you as a lover and you begin having a sexual relationship with her and then break up, there will be no "Let's just be friends now". This would simply not work because the physical attraction is too strong and the awkwardness of the situation would prevent any real friendship for occurring. On the other hand, she could consider you as a friend and you would begin to "hang out" with her, all the while hoping that something will magically happen and she will become gradually attracted to you. You would be nice to her, buy her gifts, let her cry on your shoulder when her asshole boyfriend cheats on her, go shopping with her and always be on call to drive her wherever she pleases. However, all of this effort would be in vain because she had already categorized you when you first met her, and you are forever locked into the "Friend's Zone".

What you are reading right now is the brutal honest truth, and even though you may be in this type of situation right now with a woman and are hanging on to any last hope that you may have, deep down you should be able to see the real truth if you think about it logically. It's as simple as this: If you have a crush on a woman that you are "just friends" with, you will never have a chance to become her lover. Your one and only shot at having an intimate relationship with a woman is within the first few minutes of meeting her, if you do not make the right impression at that time then her legs will be forever closed to you.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but this is just the way that it is. The only thing to do once you're in the friend's zone is to forget about that girl and move on to the next one, doing this will save you loads of heartache, money and time. Theoretically, with a huge amount of effort you could possibly convince the woman to date you, but without the strong initial attraction that relationship with her will be doomed to fail rather quickly. It is a fool's errand.

In Hollywood "chick flicks", the nice guy who is best friends with the beautiful woman typically either out-smarts the "bad guy" or just gets lucky and ultimately ends up with the woman on his arm. After that, they go on to live happily ever after and blah blah, bullshit. In the real world, the nice guy will usually tip off the beautiful woman and she will realize how much of a jerk the bad guy is and dump him, but then just go out and meet another bad boy and begin dating him while the nice guy is still just her friend. Have you ever thought about why women love those chick flicks so much? It's because they are all fairy tales and have a plot that would never happen in reality, if those movies were like real life then they wouldn't be nearly as interesting. It's like the equivalent of what action flicks are to us men. Even though James Bond can drive a Porsche through an exploding building, ramp it off of the roof, shoot down a helicopter with a single shot while still in mid-air and then land on another rooftop without even getting a single scratch on his high-end vehicle... doesn't mean that it could ever actually happen. It's the impossible that we are drawn to.

With that said, let's get back on track:

If you have just met a new woman and your actual intentions are to have a sexual relationship with her, you MUST immediately let her know that is what you want from her. You need to have an "all or nothing" attitude when first gaming a woman, and express this in everything that you say and do. Within the first few minutes of meeting her, if you can get the message across to her that you want to be her lover and not her friend, you will easily be able to avoid ever being dropped into the friend's zone. You can accomplish this simply by flirting properly, which includes teasing, kino, negs, push & pull, smiling seductively and a wide array of other techniques and methods. Be fun and carefree, act as if you're not looking for anything serious and just want to have a good time. Never allow her dominate you in any way, do not buy her drinks or hold/watch her purse for her.

When you follow the guidelines listed above, you will successfully be able to prevent yourself from ever becoming "just a friend" again, and will begin to have sexual relationships with women rather than one-sided friendships in which you are just being used by women due to being a "nice guy".

Always remember:

The only way to get out of the friend's zone is to avoid ever going there in the first place!

Good looking is not everything

I used to think that The most crucial to get a beautiful woman is good looks. Because every time I
hear the conversation of women, They always spoken about handsome guy on campus, handsome man who passes in front of them, new handsome man who they knew.

I think that the women decided to establish a relationship with a man  is to assess the look because I also
took the decision to choose a woman based on face and their sexy physical condition.

Most men in general had higher levels of smartness far below the level of good looks or Tora Sudiro Nicholas Saputra. Because usually good looks were taken from birth, and remain so although at the alter like anything else, then you should forget and bury your dreams in one day-in that you can looks like they have.


Unfortunately, women always talk and say all the time to us that they love with handsome men. Is this
is a dead card for a man who looked mediocre? 
Is looks mediocre determine your level of female beauty approach, which of course my level with the level of your good looks?

Any man who confirmed it was a lossy mentally man, or the man who surrendered before the war began.

In The Reality in the course of his life a man who looked just barely have a chance to improve its appeal in the world of romance and period of time to get it also NOT LIMITED.

 

 Strive for our own future. Begin to plan and manage finances, improve skills in things that are useful for the future, become an independent man who has the identity and quality in many aspects of our lives, not become a man wrapped in a lossy Wealth parents and a Handsome Face

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Personel Leadership

1. Challenge : Finding your way combines three main challenges: setting goals, pursuing those goals and stay focused. Setting goals involves setting objectives and develop plans to achieve them.
2. Purpose Pursue : Pursue your goals should include setting the system so you can evaluate the progress you make toward your goal.
3. Stay Focused : Motivation serves as a contributing factor to stay focused on your goals. Support from other people proved to be one source of motivation.
4. Fear Fighter : Fear is a kind of emotional feelings that will have enormous impact on our confidence. We must try our best to not let our fear be our obstacles to success. In the meantime we have to build more positive thinking because positive thinking such as excitement can greatly increase your confidence in yourself for us to deal with any difficulties. We will make a big motivation to control our feelings and do not let negative feelings stop us from achieving our goals.
5. Mentor Guidance : It is true that confidence can be obtained through ourselves, but sometimes we need intensive guidance from successful people. We must learn from them, treat them as our great mentor, and learn about successes and their beliefs. This is important because every time we face the difficulties, we will continue to be inspired and motivated by successful people. Therefore, it eventually will greatly increase our confidence
6. Take Action : Finally, we receive great information to gain the confidence, we even went to many seminars and read many books on motivation, but it will not work because we have to take massive action and make all the things we learning occurs. Remember that we set goals, implement specific goals every day, noon and night. Revising what went wrong and try to fix it. This will help increase your confidence   

How to Attract Beautiful Women

1. Have confidence in yourself all the time. Yes, trust is the key building blocks to develop an attractive personality types of women. You can not be the kind of man that is too light, the kind of man who sank back into the background if you want to attract beautiful women. You have to make them look at you and with the right amount of self confidence, women will see you.
2. Having charisma. Charisma and charm are very successful, dwarfing anything else you can think of when talking about attractive women and keep the attention on YOU. If you are boring and you do not have anything about you that will attract attention, then you will not have the kind of success with women you want. You must know how to develop charisma and charm off when you are with women. 
3. Able to build attraction through conversation. If you really want to lure women and make it fall on you, then you should be able to build her attraction through conversation. Not able to talk with women is one of the biggest obstacles that many men have to attract sexy women. You do not want to just have a conversation to give a compliment. Conversations like that he could get from other men out there.
4. Being able to know when to approach a woman. The accuracy of your time with a woman can easily create or destroy any chance you've had with her. Some men will wait too long and then they wonder why they end up not getting the results they want. They wonder why they are friends with women and no more. If you want to build real and intense fascination with the woman, then you must get the right timing

How to Know What Women Want

1. She needs to believe in you. Nothing is more important in a relationship than mutual trust. Stability is the key to meet the needs of women.A woman needs to know that you will be there when she needs you.Knowing that you are loyal to her, physically and emotionally, is the most important element you can give in a relationship.
2. On the other hand, she needs to know and feel that you trust her too. Constantly complaining about where she is and by whom will only cause a deep rift between the two of you. There is truth in the saying that you can encourage someone to cheat. Believe in yourself, your spouse, and your relationships. 
3. Women need a man of caring, thoughtful, and kind. They want someone who will listen when they cry (no matter how uncomfortable it), which will bring them medicine when they are in period, and wrap them when cold. Women spend more time caring for you, so it is fair to return the favor.
4. Help your girlfriend feel like a partner. Women need to feel like they are on common ground with their partner. They do not want to be too protected, but on the other side they do not want to feel like they have always been caretakers of children. Surveys show that women need a partner who is their best friend, someone who celebrates their successes and sympathize with their failure 
5. As much as men hate whining, women equally hate nagging. Helps without being asked is one of the easiest ways to maintain relationships. Offer to wash dishes, making dinner or folding laundry is a definite cue attention. In many cases if you offer to do something, your partner will tell you to not worry about it, but she will be glad that you offered to help. These are all little things that really proven.
6. Show how much you respect and appreciate her. Women always talk about wanting to be respected by the opposite sex, but unless you're a woman you can never really understand what this means. Women handle most emotional labor in their relationship, but they are constantly confronted with comments that do not have to think about and not dignified, even when it's not intentional. Women want respect for the work they do, whether it's at home or company. The woman is a master of multitasking, and they are very stubborn, but they are also more emotional than men and sometimes they need a little reassurance that they are respected for all that they do