Sunday, June 12, 2011

Approaching in the Club

Things you need to have first is TRUE BODY LANGUAGE,
because clubbing place you can not use words that are too long for the first time.

Then all you need is a few words - words
short like "Hi, What is your name?"
and the more you need is body language that shows
that you are a man who has value and high quality.
  Therefore, when he refused to meet with you.
The woman would regret her decision on that day.

The second thing you need to have is the correct FASHION.
  I am confident that at every club I've ever visited has a rule that 
you MUST DRESS-UP / DRESS-UP is A MUST. 

I'm sure you know that every woman who was in the club must dress-up with clothes and makeup.

If you come without looking cool.
They will think that you are not hanging out or you do not know how to take care of yourself.

Any of which is on the woman's brain,
  both are not a good thing for you.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

How To Flirt On The Phone


Tip #1. Deepen your voice - A sexy hello is preferable to a squeaky one.
Adjust your tonality so that you sound sexy on the phone. Exchanging
pleasantries on the phone is the same as exchanging a handshake; you have
to get it right, or you risk making a bad first impression.
 
Tip #2.  Smile when you're talking - Do this exercise right now: record
your voice. Compare the way you sound while you're smiling and while you're
frowning. This slight difference will make or break the way you flirt on the
phone. A smiling hello will make her feel welcome, while a frowning one will
scare her.
 
Tip #3. Do not phrase your initial greeting as a question - Say hello like
you would when meeting her in person. A lilting hello makes you seem weak,
particularly if you're leaving a message on her answering machine.
Here's a bonus tip...
 
Tip #4. To really learn how to flirt on the phone, you must get over your
fear of silence. Sometimes, pauses are necessary to let the other person digest
what you just told her. Rambling on and on to prevent pauses will make her
want to cover her ears and get rid of you as soon as possible.

How To Attract Without Saying A Single Word

When it comes to attracting women, your 'facial gesture'
(or facial expression) becomes very important. You might not
know this, but most men fail at getting women to like them just
because they have got very poor facial expression.

The mistake that they make is that they have never really given
much thought about facial gestures. As a result, women get turned
off. Don't make this mistake!

It is worthwhile to figure out how to master facial expressions -
in fact, this is one of the 'secret weapons' that the master
seducers know that they seldom tell others about.

When I have mastered my facial gestures, it became my favorite
method of 'approaching' women. In fact, 4 times out of 5 women
would smile back whenever I look at them from a distance.

(This is also a tactic which you can use to "Shift Her Focus" - a
powerful technique I shared in the DeadlySeduction system on
how to get attention of any woman you fancy - 100% of the time.
If you have the program already, quickly flip to page 38 for a quick
revision.)

Now here's an easy way to master your facial expression...

When you see a girl you like, look her directly in the eye. (It's
important to keep a steady eye contact). At the same time, think of
some 'naughty' thoughts, and then smile.

If it somehow feels unnatural, start again. After a couple of
times, you will feel comfortable - you will know it when you get it
right.

Once you got this nailed down, then she will feel that you are an
attractive man. Your success with her is virtually guaranteed when
you walk over to talk to her - and you won't ever need cheesy
pickup lines again. How's that for a change?

The good thing is that once you learned this technique, you will
have it for life. You will then have the powers to get women
attracted to you...without having to say a single thing. What's
next then is to develop instant rapport, which is easy if you apply
the 'share the pain' technique (page 52 of DeadlySeduction -

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

How to Text Flirt with Women

#1 - Use Call Back Humor

When you first meet a woman, it's important to have a fun,
flirty conversation that she'll remember.

Often, I like to tease a girl on something about her
background or her interests.

Then I'll assign her a nickname.

And once I get her digits, I'll send a quick text message
that refers back to this nickname.

This is what's known as "Call Back Humor".

It's taking a previous conversation and using it to seed
future discussions.

When sending a text message to a girl, you should always
refer back to private jokes and conversations that you had
with her.

#2 - Create Familiarity with Her

Call back humor is a form of what's commonly known as
"assumed familiarity".

With a text message to a girl, you want to create the vibe
that you're ALREADY buddies.

Joke around with your messages.

Don't be afraid to tease her.

Act like you've known each other for years.

#3 - Use Your Imagination

People (even women) live boring lives.

Your text messages should help break the monotony of her
day and get to her to imagine what it would be like to go
on an 'adventure' with you.

For instance, you could text something like: "It's 80
degrees out, wonder what it would like to skip work today
and go to the beach with you?".


Then you can text back and forth about the different things
you would bring on your little adventure.

#4- Be a *Little* Sweet

I've never been a fan of giving TOO many compliments when
you first meet a girl.

But you one (or two) ...when done correctly... can really
amplify make her think of you.

For instance, if you just had a date the night before, you
could send something that describes how you were just
thinking about what a good kisser she was on the date.

Stuff that compliments a woman's ACTIONS are always a
great way to flirt with text messaging.

Knowing how to text flirt doesn't have to be serious or
formal.

The idea is to use this device to playfully flirt and get
her thinking about you.

Monday, June 6, 2011

Conversation Tips - Active Listening

This tip is CRUCIAL, 
can make or break it with a target, and will keep your mind sharp and alert after a bit of trial and error but does require a lot of active listening. 
Girls will always drop in little words in their sentences hoping you will pick up on them! this is where the active listening definitely helps and where a girls "anti-slut" defense come into play.

And example of this is while out, a friend of mine was on form, tuning this girl working in a cigarette stall and doing very well. She had to get back to work and he noticed she was finishing up in the stall, and said to me, "ok, I've got to ask her out for a drink". He waited until she was on her own away from the stall and approached her asking to go out for a drink sometime. Her reply was, "oh I'm actually kind of seeing someone at the moment". Now honestly, how many of you picked up on the word/s she dropped in there? .."kind of", THAT is part of a girls "anti-slut" defense, yeah she may be seeing a guy, but the "kind of" lets you know shes interested in you but doesn't want to come across as being a slut, and because you picked up on the 'kind of' shes still fair game so keep working your magic. It takes a bit of practice to pick up on these, but once you do, you cant help but pick up on these subtle hints every time. - Shaymis

Conversation Tips - Talk About Places

Most women are interested in Traveling or exotic places. 
I've always gone to the Dominican Republic to party and I find that many upper class Europeans go there. 
Don't be afraid to learn a few different districts of world cities like Berlin or London. 
--->Ex: Oh where are you from sugar? I'm from Tarnow, Poland. Oh? Tarnow!?! I had a friend in Dabrowska Tarnow for a few years! I'd love to come again! It allows you to start a conversation and get invited to their homes and get guaranteed booty calls in the future while traveling.
If traveling domestic, don't be afraid to mention (but not brag) about all the fun European cities you've been to. 
Talk more about the people and culture than how cool it is to travel and be rich. Even if you've never been outside of your home town, say you've been anywhere. London, Paris, and Milan are big cities that excite women. I have been to Europe a few times but I love talking to women in America about my travels. They are instantly fascinated! But beware, many European vacationers in Mexico and the Caribbean aren't too impressed with your travels. Mention there countries and their neighborhoods. ( BONUS POINTS = I learned about 10 phrases in Spanish, French, German, Polish, Russian, and Dutch! If you hear them talking in that language, say a simple phrase. Then they'll probably say Sprechen Sie Deutsch or Parlez vous francais or whatever. Say a small bit in that language and then introduce yourself in English) I was smart enough to figure that trick out at age 13! It literally has worked 100%!!!!! -Jonny